Do you find yourself sighing and yawning often as you try to catch your breath? Do you usually breathe shallowly? Are you usually holding your stomach muscles in tightly, keeping your breath in your chest? You are not alone! Sadly, our culture still often rewards people for stifling strong emotions, and being “strong.” Females are sometimes expected to rein in anger so they don’t seem "bossy." Personally, calling me bossy is a compliment! Males are often exhorted not to cry. And we …